How to attract sex or better sex with your partner

Today's article is going to be about intimacy, and relationship in bed
we receive a lot of questions about sex:
how do i attract the right sexual partner?
how do i have more sex? or better sex with my partner?
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You may watch this podcast on our youtube channel about the same topic:

One of the first things that we need to discuss in order to approach this very big topic is that when we think in terms of having harmony with another person (because as you know, sex as many other manifestations is a co-creative experience, so there's a whole other person involved with their own desires and their own needs and all this stuff and their own vibrational set point)
So in order to be in harmony with this relationship we need to be in harmony with what that person wants and with that person and that's a trap.
The reason it's a trap is because people are fickle, and you can't control what anybody wants or how they change their mind or whether or not they're in their alignment with their own power in the moment or not but if you will separate for a moment your
experience with other people and start to remember to feel good, get into a sync with the source and the love that you are. Imagine your desires, imagine experiencing those desires, feel the sensuality that comes forth when you
allow yourself to be happy, to feel good, to look for the positive aspects and find them.
Especially if you want to warm up.. a great sexual warm-up is to look at your partner, relish in their positive aspects.. if you don't know who they are yet use your imagination or recall times when you did, like memories of when you did have an experience like that.. just do your best to feel good
do your best to feel good in every area of your life instead of only in the sexual area.. as you do
that you're going to clean your vibration up and you're going to become in alignment.. and when you get in that aligned place
you're going to attract another person but instead of trying to hop around to please that other person, when you stay looking for the positive aspects in them and looking for the positive aspects in yourself and all things.. you are going to be in alignment and
you'll attract someone who's also in alignment
You see how it works? your connection to your own source is going to net you somebody that is going to meet up and
match up with the desires that you hold.

you can't be saying no to sex while you're wanting to attract a sexual partner by telling stories like "oh it didn't work out well last time" or "i never really find anybody that's like really got sexual chemistry with me"... if you tell that story you can feel good all day long and you'll attract every matter of other things in your life that are good but not on that
subject so you've got to open yourself up to receiving the lover and the orgasms and the central experience that you want..

As you know, when you open up to your own source energy you're going to feel more sensual you're goning to feel in tune with your body and like touching and being touched and that's a good sign, a good indicator that you're getting in alignment with all of that..
If you are already with a partner, same thing, when you get in your vortex when you get in your aligned powerful state you draw that kind of energy from them.. and as you appreciate them, you flood them with the feelings of goodness and they
may not respond right away.. but isn't it more about you being in alignment on all topics? than it is about getting some kind of manifestation out of somebody or getting some instant gratification.
If you work on the relationship with yourself, all of those things will come to you whether it's a new person or a person you've been with or even a skill that you want to acquire in the bedroom... whatever it is you will get there.

Remember that what's coming to you is what's a vibrational match to you. So take it in, don't make yourself wrong, just use it as a guideline to see what your point of attraction really is, and keep imagining.